Online Friends: A Powerful Love #inspiration #love #friendship


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“I dislike the phrase ‘Internet friends,’ because it implies that people you know online aren’t really your friends, that somehow the friendship is less real or meaningful to you because it happens through Skype or text messages. The measure of a friendship is not its physicality but its significance.” ― John Green, This Star Won’t Go Out: The Life and Words of Esther Grace Earl

 

I thank God every day for my online friends. They’re more dependable, caring and loving than my some of my own family and friends.

 

I have a great circle of online friends. They’re there to support me in times of need and celebrate with me in times of triumph. I know I can depend on them through thick and thin, no matter what. It doesn’t matter that they live thousands of miles away or that they speak a different language.

 

Friends, whether they are “real” or “online”, are one of life’s greatest joys. We smile when we see a message from them and whatever is happening takes a backseat. We share something funny, sad or meaningful. We ask for advice or give it when needed. We congratulate when something positive happens and offer hugs when something bad happens. Our online friends, through the power of social media, provide love and it’s simply wonderful.

 

There’s so many amazing people out there who hold a special place in my heart. I thank you all for showing me the power of positive thinking and love. Without you, my life would be miserable. I’m so grateful!

 

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Send a message to all your online friends today and tell them how much they mean to you! Share a laugh, like I did above. lol!

 

MRS N

Be Mindful of the Company You Keep. Negative People Can Weigh You Down #inspiration #affirmations


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Are you surrounding yourself with positive or negative people?

I used to have friends who loved to talk about all that was wrong in their life. They were constantly complaining and the more I was around them, the heavier my heart weighed and the more likely I was to complain about my own life.

It wasn’t until I put some distance between these so-called friends and myself that I realized what was going on. Their negativity held me down and didn’t allow me to grow.

Negative people can weigh you down and even undermine your efforts to be physically, mentally and emotionally healthy.

I love this quote because it illustrates the repercussions of negativity. It’s crucial for us to choose our inner circle of friends who are supportive, positive and lift us up. In order to be healthy in all facets of our life, we must be mindful of the company we keep.

Take a look at your circle of influence. Do they support you and reflect gratitude, love and positivism? If not, maybe it’s time to make a change.

MRS N

Life Becomes Easier by Doing This… #inspiration #friendship #Motivation


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Letting go is hard, especially when it’s something that you have no control of.

A friend of mine (let’s call her Lori) came to me with something that was troubling her.

… “and then she just up and stopped being my friend.”

“What do you mean? Did she tell you she didn’t want to be friends anymore?” I asked.

“No.” Lori paused. “She has new friends now and doesn’t return my calls, emails and breaks engagements on short notice.”

“Oh.” I thought about it for a minute. “Did you ask her about it? Maybe she’s going through a rough time.”

“She is and the kicker is that I have been there for her through it all. I’ve been so supportive. It just hurts, you know?”

“I know, sweetie, and I’m sorry you’re going through such pain. But if she doesn’t want to be your friend anymore, the best thing you can do is to just let go.”

I hugged my friend, Lori.

Have you had this happen?

I sure have. Friends have come and gone in my life. It’s painful and it sucks. My first instinct is to make things right in any relationship, even if it’s not my fault. I don’t like conflict and I will try anything to bring back peace.

The reality is that when a relationship is over (whether it’s on your end or the other person’s end), you’ve got to just let go and move on. It doesn’t mean that you stop loving that person. It doesn’t mean that you’re a failure. It just means that the person is no longer in your inner circle.

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.

Lori is starting to let go and I’m glad. After time has passed, Lori will reflect on the happy times with her friend and see the benefit of letting go.

Look deep into your heart and ask yourself this question:

Have I let go of those people who have hurt me?

MRS N

Surround Yourself With People Who Love, Motivate and Encourage You #inspiration #affirmations


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Do you surround yourself with the right people? I’m not talking about people with money, power and/or influence. Are you surrounding yourself with people who inspire and encourage you to be who you are?

I used to think that I needed to be friends with people who could help me achieve my goals. I also surrounded myself with people I knew were bad for me but they had been my friends forever. Both of these groups of friends were damaging to my self-esteem and my identity.

My thinking changed when I was put into a deadly situation. Suddenly, life took on a whole new perspective and the people I thought were my friends scattered like dandelion fluff in the wind. I was alone. I looked deep inside and made the decision to change who my friends were.

Once I surrounded myself with friends who loved me for me, I began to grow and my self-esteem increased. These friends were there for me and motivated me to chase after my dreams including starting my own business and writing full-time. They inspire me  and they continue to encourage me to reach for the stars.

Are your friends motivating, inspiring and encouraging you to be the very best you can be? If not, maybe you need to surround yourself with people who do.

In your day, surround yourself with people who love you, motivate you, encourage you and just make you feel good about being… you!

MRS N

A Friend is More Precious Than Gold #inspiration #RIP #love


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Yesterday, I found out that my friend, Ruth Ann Boyle, passed away. She and I met in a NFL fantasy pool league ten years ago. We clicked right away over our love for the Minnesota Vikings and we became immediate friends.

Ruth was the sweetest, most thoughtful person and she had a competitive streak too. You wouldn’t think a nun from Indiana would be competitive. Yes, Ruth was a nun. Maybe that’s what drew me to her, her Light, although I didn’t learn about her profession until later.

I always looked forward to the football season because she and I could talk for hours about the NFL and the eternal hope we shared of being a purple people eater fan. 🙂

Her death caught me by surprise and I’m sorry for grieving today. She meant a lot to me and I never got to say good-bye.

My message for you today is to love your friends/family and to let them know how much you love them. You never know when they’ll be gone.

This NFL season, I dedicate all my picks and fantasy football leagues to Ruth. I know she’s looking down on me from Heaven with a smile and a wink. I can almost hear her whisper, “Go Vikings”.

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MRS N

Be Someone’s Lighthouse #inspiration #kindness #SpreadtheLight


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Do you know someone who’s discouraged? Has life got them down?

Be their lighthouse.

For hundreds of years, people relied on lighthouses to guide their passage on the seas. Sailors and travelers needed the lighthouse to shine their beacon to show them how to navigate the shoreline. Without the lighthouse, the boat/ship would crash onto the rocky shoreline, killing everyone on-board.

I have a few friends going through a bad time in their life right now. I offer words of encouragement, a listening ear and my shoulder to cry on.

“I don’t know what I’d do without you.”

“You’re so strong.”

“Thank you.”

In their darkness, I’m a beacon of hope, a sliver of Light.

Be a lamp, or a lifeboat or a ladder. Help someone’s soul heal.

MRS N

Are You Surrounded by the Right People? #inspiration #motivation #affirmations


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Do you surround yourself with the right people? I’m not talking about people with money, power and/or influence. Are you surrounding yourself with people who inspire and encourage you to be who you are?

I used to think that I needed to be friends with people who could help me achieve my goals. I also surrounded myself with people I knew were bad for me but they had been my friends forever. Both of these groups of friends were damaging to my self-esteem and my identity.

My thinking changed when I was put into a dangerous situation. Suddenly, life took on a whole new perspective and the people I thought were my friends scattered like dandelion fluff like the wind. I was alone. I looked deep inside and made the decision to change who my friends were.

Once I surrounded myself with friends who loved me for me, I began to grow and my self-esteem increased. These friends were there for me and motivated me to chase after my dreams including writing my first novel. They inspired me to start this blog and they continue to encourage me to reach for the stars.

How about you? Are your friends motivating, inspiring and encouraging you to be the very best you can be? If not, maybe you need to surround yourself with people who do.

In your day, surround yourself with people who love you, motivate you, encourage you and just make you feel good about being… you!

MRS N

Make Time For What Matters #timemanagement #inspiration #motivation


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Are you making time for what matters?

Our days are filled with people and projects pulling us in all directions. Time management is more important than ever. My question above get to the crux of the issue. Work is important and deadlines need to be met. But are you sacrificing something else in the process?

When I am scheduling my day, I make sure to leave evenings free. Why? This is the time I spend with MR N. Come 5:30 pm, my priority is relaxing and spending quality time with him. Not only is it healthy for my stress level but it solidifies our relationship.

Today, make a list of five ways to incorporate what matters into your schedule. It could be spending time with your significant other, children, best friend, sibling, family, etc. It could be spending quality time by yourself. No matter what it may be, make time for it.

When you make time for what matters, you create balance in your mind, body and soul.

MRS N

Love Month: A Friend’s Love #inspirational #love #friendship


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Raise your hand if you have friends like that.

I have and continue to have friends like that. There are several people in this great big world who I immediately click with, am so comfortable with and can just be me.

True friends are needed to make this journey of life more bearable. They laugh, cry, advise, hug and encourage you. Real friends (whether virtual or close by) love you for who you are, no matter what.

I once had a friend tell me, “I know you are my best friend because I could tell you I wet the bed and you’d still love me”.

It’s true. 🙂

Do you have friends like that? Are you one of those friends?

You are blessed!

Take a moment today and tell your friends how much their unconditional love means to you!

I thank all of my true friends for letting me be me! ❤ you all!

❤ MRS N ❤

Happy October and Remember to Live Each Day Fully!!!


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I love this quote and it sums up my outlook on life:

Think as many thoughts as you can.

Walk everywhere and enjoy the journey your feet take you.

Read as many books in your lifetime as possible.  Books allow you to travel across the universe and experience the world.

Friends are the sweet nectar of life.  Real friends love you unconditionally and make the road of life easier to traverse.

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Happy October to you and may this month be filled with thoughts, walks, books and friends!!! 🙂