February 14th is the Most Romantic Day of the Year… or is it? #ValentinesDay #inspiration #love


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Joelle, My True Love

My thoughts are of you

Of how your caresses

Light a fire in my soul.

Of how your pretty smile

Brightens my whole day

How simply being near you

Takes the dark clouds away.

I love you with all my heart

My mind, body and soul

You will be my beloved wife

This truly will be my joy.

© 2016 Poetry of Love: The Engagement Year by N. N. Light, All rights reserved

Happy Valentine’s Day! It’s time to talk about romantic love and I dedicate this day and inspirational thought to the man who taught me the real meaning of love, Mr. N.

From the time I was three, I dreamt of my Prince Charming, the handsome man who would love me and make all my dreams come true. I know it sounds like the total cliche but that is exactly what Mr. N did.

The fairy tale didn’t go exactly like it is portrayed by Disney. In fact, I broke Mr. N’s heart twice. Yup, I broke up with him twice, crushing him deeply. It wasn’t until I looked deep into his eyes (for the third time) and saw the unconditional love there that I realized Mr. N’s real name is Prince Charming.

The above poem Mr. N wrote to me on Valentine’s Day when we were engaged. He had to work a double-shift at the restaurant (18 hours) and it tore us both apart that we had to be away from each other on Valentine’s Day. Such is the life of a chef and his beloved but we made the best of it and when he got home, he shared his poem with me. ❤

Nowadays, we don’t celebrate our engagement anniversary on Valentine’s Day but on the weekend following. We call it Love Weekend and it’s a three-day weekend chockful of delicious food, cocktails and romantic movies. We look forward to it every year and it’s one of the ways we keep our marriage burning hot. 😉

This Valentine’s Day, if you’re in a relationship, be sure to take a moment to tell your beloved how much you love them. You don’t have to go out to a fancy restaurant or spend a lot of money on gifts and flowers to show you care. Spending time with your beloved and showering them with your kindness and love is the best gift you can give.

A note to singles: Listen, I know this is a hard day for you. Everyone around you is gushing about romantic love. Take today and shower yourself with love. Don’t throw a pity party but cherish yourself and indulge in something decadent. You’re beautiful and I love you!

Spread Love and Light!

MRS N

This #ValentinesDay N. N. Light Shares Their Courtship and More #books #amwriting #IARTG


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A week ago, we were featured on Indie Publishing Group and they sat us down for an in-depth interview. We loved it and wanted to share it with you on Valentine’s Day. Don’t forget to scroll down to the bottom to see our latest release at a great price!

 

This Week’s Feature Author Interview with N. N. Light

 

Hi N. N. Light, welcome to the Indie Publishing Group website. Introduce yourself to us. Tell everyone who you are, where you’re from, what do you enjoy doing, hobbies and interests.

N. N. Light is the bestselling husband-wife writing team, commonly known as Mr. N and Mrs. N. Mrs. N. has been creating stories ever since she was little. Her grandfather remembers when she was two years old, she would stand at the top of the stairs and tell him a story filled with emotion (and in a language foreign to him) with her hands on her hips. Let’s just say she was a born storyteller.

We’re blissfully happy and love all things chocolate, books, music, movies, art, sports, trains, history, cooking and baking. Our mantra is to spread the Light and we talk about what that means every day on our blog.

Most of the time you can find us on Twitter (our favorite social media platform) or getting new ideas on how to spread the Light on Pinterest. We’re a proud member of ASMSG and Independent Author Network.

In addition to being authors, we’re also book promoters/reviewers, social media marketers/influencers and the owners of N. N. Light Author Promotions. We both love books, have ever since we were young. Matching up books and readers is something that gives us great pleasure.

 

When did you start writing and why?

Mrs. N: I’ve been writing and telling stories ever since I was little. Writing was my best friend and my confidante growing up. I poured my heart and soul into my writing and those who I let read my stories wanted more. After I graduated from college, the real world intruded and I entered the publishing world as a bookseller and bookstore manager. Writing took a backseat and it wasn’t until after I married Mr. N that I started writing my stories. He encouraged me to quit my job and write full-time. Together, we became N. N. Light.

Mr. N: It’s true, what my beloved says. After several years working as a chef in the restaurant industry, I was burned out and needed a change. A new career and higher pay meant she could concentrate on what she’s wanted most: to write and publish her stories. We work so well together that writing as a team is second nature and through the process, I discovered I had the talent for writing, too.

 

Which is your favorite book you have written and what gave you the idea for it?

Princess of the Light. It’s our debut novel and it’s the one closest to our hearts. Here’s the story behind it as told by Mrs. N:

Four years ago, I was out for my morning walk and I saw a homeless man sitting in front of a gas station.  I looked at him, head uplifted to the sun, and wondered what his story was.  I hadn’t seen him before and knew instantly he was different from other homeless people.  He didn’t ask for money or holdup a sign.  He walked the length of our town and avoided contact.    


A voice entered my head, “What if you could help him?  Would you?  What if you were chosen to help him and others like him?”


I stopped walking and searched my heart.  After a moment, I replied aloud, “Yes, I would.”


The voice echoed in my heart, “This is what you were called to do.”


I went home that day and started writing Princess of the Light.  Every day I would see the Walking Man and as Mary would help her Walking Man, I would help mine.  I started small by smiling at him and saying “good morning”.  The simple acknowledgement didn’t seem like a big deal to me but every time I did it, his face lit up and he nodded back to me.


I soon got my husband involved and we started leaving food, clothing and blankets for him. I promised myself that when my book got published, part of the proceeds would go to helping people like the Walking Man find food, clothing and shelter.

 

Our book is available at Amazon and we’re keeping our promise. Part of the proceeds of Princess of the Light goes directly to food banks in order to feed the hungry and help those in need. With only 7,500 books sold, we will be able to set up a monthly endowment for the local food bank. 

 

We’re currently writing the sequel to Princess of the Light and will fingers crossed be available in late 2017/early 2018.

 

How did you come up with the title for your book?

The title was pretty easy as that is what Mary is (Princess of the Light) and she’s been chosen to fight Lucifer’s army of demons and restore Light to all.

 

Who helped you with the cover? Or did your design it yourself? What was your inspiration for your cover design?

Our cover artist is French (Erica Petit) and she really nailed it. We wanted a powerful cover to convey the strength and badassery of Mary.

 

What are some of the themes of your story?

There are several themes going on in this paranormal inspirational romance.

 

First, there’s the calling of Mary. She’s leading a double-life and it’s imperative she balance her normal life with her Princess life. Sometimes they overlap and she must deal with whatever happens.

 

Second theme is the romance between Mary and Joe. While it seems like a chance meeting, it’s part of a bigger plan. Mary and Joe must overcome quite a bit and all while battling dark forces and an ex-fiancée.

 

Third theme is the transformation of a homeless man called The Walking Man. He’s the lost soul, tortured beyond recognition by Than (Lucifer’s second in command). When Mary and Joe decide to show kindness to The Walking Man, realization hits too close to home for Joe. Forgiveness, redemption, spiritual warfare all play their part in this story. We wanted to show readers that simple acts of kindness and understanding to those less fortunate can have a huge impact.

 

Have you got anything you’re working on now?

We’re working on a few projects. We’re writing the sequel to Princess of the Light. We’re writing an alternative history book (Mr. N is the pointman on this project as it’s his creation) as well as a new adult romance. We’re also putting together the sequel to our love poetry collection as well as an inspirational thought book.

 

If you could have any super powers what would they be?

Time travel. Both of us lost our dads when we were young and we’d give just about anything to go back in time and relive time with our dads.

 

Thanks so much for taking the time to do an author interview. Take a minute and check N. N. Light out on the links below!


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Title: Poetry of Love: The Engagement Year

Author: N. N. Light

Genre: Poetry, Love Poetry

 

Book Blurb:

Amazon #1 Best-Seller and Hot New Release

 

I had been searching for love my whole life. It took the opening up of the world via technology for me to find my soulmate. Once I laid eyes on her, at the arrivals gate, I knew I was never going to let her go. The following is a collection of poems I wrote to my angel, from our first meeting up until our wedding day. I was working crazy hours as a chef and I had a long commute. I chose my commuting time to pen her a poem each day. These poems speak of our life, our challenges and our growth together…in every aspect they speak of our love.

 

May this book give someone the courage to let their special someone know how much they care for them and how much they mean to them. Saying I love you is a gift you can give many times a day.

 

Excerpt:

Our Love

Our love exists in so many ways

Even when parted I feel you

I long for your gaze

Knowing our love is true.

When in the heaven of your arms

I feel our love’s warmth surround me.

Your grace, beauty and charm

Leave me gasping breathless in serenity.

The pureness, sweetness and sincerity

Our so perfect love

Oft compels me to my knees

To thank our Lord above

For our love.

 

 

In celebration of Valentine’s Day, we’re offering a special promotion:

 

 

 

Author Biography: N. N. Light is the bestselling husband-wife writing team, commonly known as Mr. N and Mrs. N. Mrs. N. has been creating stories ever since she was little. Her grandfather remembers when she was two years old, she would stand at the top of the stairs and tell him a story filled with emotion (and in a language foreign to him) with her hands on her hips. Let’s just say she was a born storyteller.

 

They’re blissfully happy and love all things chocolate, books, music, movies, art, sports, trains, history, cooking and baking. Their mantra is to spread the Light.

 

Most of the time you can find them on Twitter or getting new ideas on how to spread the Light on Pinterest. They’re a proud member of ASMSG and Independent Author Network.

 

In addition to being authors, they’re also book promoters/reviewers, social media marketers/influencers and the owners of N. N. Light Author Promotions. They both love books, have ever since they were young. Matching up books and readers is something that gives them great pleasure.

 

 

They’d love to connect with you either via email or via these various social media sites:

Website: http://princessofthelight.com

Blog: https://princessofthelight.wordpress.com

Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/nnlight

Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/NNP_W_Light

Bookbub:  https://www.bookbub.com/authors/n-n-light

Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/nnlight

LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/n-n-light/90/1a7/902

Google+: https://plus.google.com/u/0/118060034268079734144/posts

Amazon Author Page: https://www.amazon.com/author/nnlight

Independent Author Network: http://www.independentauthornetwork.com/n-n-light.html

 

Calling All #Romance Lovers: A Modern-Day Courtship #ValentinesDay #LovePoetry #books


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Title: Poetry of Love: The Engagement Year

Author: N. N. Light

Genre: Poetry, Love Poetry

 

Book Blurb:

Amazon Best-Seller and Hot New Release

 

I had been searching for love my whole life. It took the opening up of the world via technology for me to find my soulmate. Once I laid eyes on her, at the arrivals gate, I knew I was never going to let her go. The following is a collection of poems I wrote to my angel, from our first meeting up until our wedding day. I was working crazy hours as a chef and I had a long commute. I chose my commuting time to pen her a poem each day. These poems speak of our life, our challenges and our growth together…in every aspect they speak of our love.

 

May this book give someone the courage to let their special someone know how much they care for them and how much they mean to them. Saying I love you is a gift you can give many times a day.

 

Excerpt:

The Day to Come

My heart yearns

For the day to come

When in front of family and friends

I take you as my bride.

It’s my honor, my love

To be your beloved

I will be constant in my affection

Shower you with devotion and love.

I do is my pledge

Of undying love.

  Fall in love with this special offer!

Just in time for Valentine’s Day/Week…

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Author Biography: N. N. Light is the bestselling husband-wife writing team, commonly known as Mr. N and Mrs. N. Mrs. N. has been creating stories ever since she was little. Her grandfather remembers when she was two years old, she would stand at the top of the stairs and tell him a story filled with emotion (and in a language foreign to him) with her hands on her hips. Let’s just say she was a born storyteller.

 

They’re blissfully happy and love all things chocolate, books, music, movies, art, sports, trains, history, cooking and baking. Their mantra is to spread the Light.

 

Most of the time you can find them on Twitter or getting new ideas on how to spread the Light on Pinterest. They’re a proud member of ASMSG and Independent Author Network.

 

In addition to being authors, they’re also book promoters/reviewers, social media marketers/influencers and the owners of N. N. Light Author Promotions. They both love books, have ever since they were young. Matching up books and readers is something that gives them great pleasure.

 

 

They’d love to connect with you either via email or via these various social media sites:

Website: http://princessofthelight.com

Blog: https://princessofthelight.wordpress.com

Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/nnlight

Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/NNP_W_Light

Bookbub:  https://www.bookbub.com/authors/n-n-light

Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/nnlight

LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/n-n-light/90/1a7/902

Google+: https://plus.google.com/u/0/118060034268079734144/posts

Amazon Author Page: https://www.amazon.com/author/nnlight

Independent Author Network: http://www.independentauthornetwork.com/n-n-light.html

 

Happy Valentine’s Day #Books to Sweeten Your Weekend! #FridayReads #ValentinesDay #kidlit


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Welcome to this week’s edition of Friday Book Round-Up. With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, I keep thinking about how excited I got when I was young. In elementary school, we took a shoe box and created Valentine Boxes. It was so much fun because on Valentine’s Day, everyone would put valentines in each box. I loved it and it’s one of the things I miss as an adult. So, in honor of that grade-school tradition, I made Valentine cookie boxes for each of you. Zero calories, too! 😉

 

Anyway, I went onto Amazon and found some sweet Valentine’s Day Children’s Books. Some are free, some less than $1 and some best-sellers. Take a peek and 1-click today:

 

Emily’s Valentine: Lacking Money She Gives Her Grandmother the Greatest Gift of All! by Elizabeth Purcell (Author), Alex Ferri Land (Illustrator)

FREE on Amazon!

 

“Emily’s Valentine,” an ebook for beginning readers, is a delightful, illustrated, rhyming story about a little girl who, unlike her cousins, is upset she has no money to buy her grandmother a Valentine’s Day gift.

 

So she makes her grandmother a special Valentine’s Day gift — unaware that she ends up giving her grandmother a lot of love, the greatest gift of all!

 

Elizabeth Purcell has been writing and performing original children’s stories for more than 30 years. Her story rhymes delight beginning readers and help them to learn phonics effectively. Your children will read her stories over and over again — developing their reading skills in the process!

 

Children’s Books: I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEARTS… AND MORE (Delightful Bedtime Story/Picture Book About the Many Ways a Mother Loves Her Children, for Beginner Readers, Ages 2-8) by Sally Huss (Author)

FREE on Amazon!

 

When two children ask their mother how much she loves them. “With all my hearts,” she answers.

 

They are astonished. “Hearts? How many hearts do you have?” Then their mother begins to list the many ways she loves them – from a heart full of love that feeds them, a heart that keeps them clean, a heart that keeps them safe, and another that comforts them. She even has a heart that encourages them to do their best and one full of pride as they learn something new, and, of course, a heart full of patience.

 

They realize how blessed they are and have a greater appreciation for their mother.

 

Charming, delightful rhyming words tell the tale and tickle the heart along with bouncy, bright, and happy images.

 

If you like the books of Dr. Seuss, Mo Willems, Sandra Boynton, Suzy Spafford, Jane O’Connor, the Berenstains, Felicia Bond, Laura Numeroff, and P.D. Eastman, you will love I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEARTS… AND MORE.

 

BE MINE by Brenda Ponnay (Author, Illustrator)

FREE on Amazon!

 

Whooo Loves You?

 

Hey Foxy!

 

You need a Bear Hug!

 

Love is in the air and these cheerful creations by Brenda Ponnay are the perfect way to share a little love with a child in your life. BE MINE is a perfect bedtime story for the child in your life for Valentine’s Day or any other time. Just like a love note tucked in a lunch box, BE MINE is a cute and fun way to connect with your child. Featuring full-color, full-screen images with Kindle tap-to-zoom text.

 

Valentine Day Mystery: Abby Douglas Mystery Series by M.M. PLOTT (Author)

FREE on Amazon!

 

Every year a few days before Valentine’s Day, the Spring Valley neighbors gather at the local community center for the Valentine’s Day Ball. But this year, a few weeks before the special event, thirteen-year old Abby Douglas becomes entangled in mysterious events that are plaguing her neighbors and friends.

 

Someone is mailing mysterious letters to the residents of the valley, and causing neighbors to bicker and point fingers at each other. Also, Froggy’s father has been having strange and frequent accidents. The curious amateur sleuth is mystified by what is happening to her peaceful community. Will she be able to find out who is sending the letters, and will Froggy’s dad survive another accident? Join Abby and the gang, Linda, Andy, and Froggy as they try to unravel the Valentine Day mystery.

 

Children’s Book: Happy Valentine’s Day! [Bedtime Stories for Kids] [Print Replica] by V Moua (Author)

FREE on Amazon!

 

Children’s Book: Happy Valentine’s Day!

 

Bedtime Stories for Kids

 

It’s Valentine’s Day! The little bird is looking to buy roses for his mother but all flower shops are sold out. Will the bird be able to get roses before the day is over? Read along as you and your child will once again enjoy the silly antics of this quirky animal!

 

This is a read aloud kids book and is easy to read. The target age range audience is for toddlers, preschool and young children.

 

Happy Valentine’s Day! is a book that any child will love, especially at bedtime. This book is suitable for parents to read to their children. Grandparents will definitely enjoy reading this book to their grandchildren.

 

Children’s Book: Happy Valentine’s Day: Cute Short Stories for Kids, Valentine’s Activities, and Jokes! (Valentine’s Day Books Series) by Arnie Lightning (Author)

Love is in the air! You and your child will enjoy these special Valentine’s Day stories for kids. Each story shares a cute message about Valentine’s Day and includes BIG & BRIGHT ILLUSTRATIONS for younger readers.

 

These stories are great for early & beginning readers, reading aloud at home, and bedtime stories.

 

2,500+ words

Cute stories for kids

Perfect for early and beginner readers

Funny and hilarious Valentine’s jokes included

Bright and colorful images for early and younger readers

Fun Valentine’s Day activities included

 

These stories are great for quick bedtime stories and cute tales to be read aloud with friends and family!

Fun for the entire family!

 

Kids and children can practice their reading skills and enjoy a few laughs. These special Valentine’s Day stories are sure to get you and your family in the loving spirit. The hilarious Valentine’s Day jokes will have everyone laughing!

 

Story & Activity List:

 

Bobby Bunny and the Valentine’s Day Visitor

McKenna and the Special Valentine

Valentine’s Day Activity

Catnip’s Secret Admirer

Valentine’s Day Activity

Gina and The Valentine’s Lights

The Very Best Valentine

Valentine’s Day Activity

Plus Valentine’s Day Jokes!

 

Best-Selling Children’s Book Author, Arnie Lightning

 

Arnie Lightning is a best-selling children’s book author with a straightforward goal. He wants his work to create a positive impact in the lives of others through children’s books. Learning morals, lessons, and good character can start at a young age. Arnie’s books reflect this. By providing a comfortable and entertaining environment, learning can be a fun activity!

 

The Valentine Monster by Cassidy Castle (Author, Illustrator)

Razzle lives in the snowy mountains above the town of Heartsworth, and her favorite day of the year is Valentine’s Day. Usually she celebrates the day all by herself, but this year, she decides to visit the town and find friends to help her celebrate. Who will befriend this little monster that loves Valentine’s Day?

 

This fully illustrated children’s book is perfect for ages 4-8.

 

Pete the Cat: Valentine’s Day Is Cool by James Dean (Author, Illustrator), Kimberly Dean (Author)

Join Pete in New York Times bestselling author James Dean’s Pete the Cat picture book series, as Pete has a Valentine’s Day adventure.

 

Pete the Cat thinks Valentine’s Day isn’t cool . . . until he realizes how many special cats there are in his life! Pete works hard to make valentines for everyone, and it turns out to be the grooviest Valentine’s Day ever. But what happens when he realizes he’s forgotten to make a card for a very important cat? Join Pete the Cat as he discovers just how special Valentine’s Day can be!

 

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: Minnie’s Valentine by Disney Book Group (Author), Disney Storybook Art Team (Illustrator)

Love is in the air at the Clubhouse, but Mickey has no idea what to get Minnie for Valentine’s Day. Minnie goes undercover, using a disguise to teach Mickey how to make a heartfelt Valentine’s Day gift.

 

Junie B. Jones #14: Junie B. Jones and the Mushy Gushy Valentime by Barbara Park (Author), Denise Brunkus (Illustrator)

Barbara Park’s New York Times bestselling chapter book series, Junie B. Jones, is a classroom favorite and has been keeping kids laughing—and reading—for more than twenty years. Over 60 million copies in print and now with a bright new look for a new generation!

 

Meet the World’s Funniest Kindergartner—Junie B. Jones! February 14—Valentime’s Day, as Junie B. calls it—is just around the corner. Junie B. can’t wait to see all the valentimes she’ll get. But she never expected a big, mushy card from a secret admirer! Who is this secret mystery guy, anyway? Junie B. is determined to find out.

 

Happy Valentine’s Day, Charlie Brown! by Charles M. Schulz (Author), Scott Jeralds (Illustrator)

Join Charlie Brown, Lucy, and the rest of the Peanuts gang as they celebrate Valentine’s Day in this Level 2 Ready-to-Read!

 

It’s Valentine’s Day and Charlie Brown is trying to find the courage to give the Little Red-Haired Girl a valentine! With a little encouragement from Lucy, he finally goes for it. Is this the year everything finally works out for Charlie Brown?

 

© 2015 Peanuts Worldwide LLC

 

Valentine’s Day Coloring Book For Kids: 2017 Coloring & Activities Book (Find Differences Games, Dot To Dot Games, Mazes And Word Games For Kids) (100 Pages) by Grace Browny (Author)

The perfect Valentine coloring book for your kids

This Valentine’s Day Coloring Book, designed for your lovely kids include loving words to say to them.

-You are loved.

-You make me smile.

  • You are growing.

-My world is better with you in it.

-I will do my best to keep you safe.

-Sometimes I will say no.

-I have faith in you.

-I know you can handle it.

-You are creative.

-Trust your instincts.

-Your ideas are worthwhile.

-You are capable.

-You are deserving.

-You are strong.

-Your choices matter.

-You make a difference.

-Your words are powerful.

-Your actions are powerful.

-I love you.

ALSO INCLUDE ACTIVITIES FOR KIDS

-Find Differences Games

-Dot To Dot Games

-Mazes Games

-Word Games

BUY THIS BOOK NOW, AND ENJOY QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR KIDS.

 

 

Have a Valentine’s Day children’s book to recommend? Share in the comments below. Happy Reading!

 

MRS N, Book Addict

What Fills Your Heart? #gratitude #love #ValentinesDay


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I woke up this morning feeling heaping amounts of gratitude.  I am grateful for a roof over my head, food to eat and the unconditional love of MR N.  I am grateful for supportive and loving family/friends.  I am grateful for the ability to type words and for each of you!

What about you?  What are you grateful for?

Does your heart look like the one above?  Is gratitude the largest part of your heart?

Every person has a bad day, week, month, etc.  Heck, I woke up yesterday to snow on the ground and the coldest day of the year to date!  Once I got over the shock, I started thinking how grateful I was to have shelter.  I am one of the lucky ones.

The Walking Man (and other homeless like him) does not have shelter.  He is out there somewhere in my town huddled against a building or sleeping with a plastic tarp over him.  I pray that he finds shelter today and can stay warm.

What are you grateful for?  Is there some way you can spread love to someone in your town? 

I bet you can! Even giving him/her a warm coffee or a smile will warm their insides and your kindness will be felt long after the coffee is gone!

This weekend is Valentine’s Day and while most people associate it with romance and romantic love, it’s a celebration of all forms of love. Be like Cupid and spread love through your actions. Smile, help someone less fortunate, offer assistance to someone in need, tell those you love how grateful you are they are in your life, etc.

MR N and I are staying inside all weekend, watching our favorite romantic movies, eating gourmet food (created by MR N, retired chef) and snuggling.

No matter what you’re doing, I hope you have an amazing weekend! If you’re feeling lonely, do something that brings you joy. If you’re surrounded by people, may you find happiness and peace.

❤ MRS N ❤

P.S. I will be away Friday through Monday. I will pop in here and there to approve comments.

Love Month: Romantic Love and All That Jazz #love #romance #inspirational


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Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day and I thought I would end my little series talking about romantic love. For those of you know know me, I talk a lot about how much I love MR N. The truth is, I can’t help it. The love we share is so mind-boggling and I keep pinching myself to make sure I’m not dreaming.

Romantic Love

From the time I was little, I was taught that finding the right man was the key to happiness. Barbie meets Ken and they happily ever after. It’s a nice concept but it’s doomed to failure. Fairy tales don’t talk about what happens after they ride off into the sunset or how to meet your Mr. Right.

When I reached dating age, I was a girl on a mission. I was after Mr. Right and nothing could stop me. I fell for the wrong man time after time and by the time I was in my late twenties, I was ready to give up. My heart got broken more times than I could count and I started to get a little cynical.

Then one weekend I attended a Christian Singles event at a local church. I met a lovely woman who changed my life. Her name was Rebecca St. James and she was a Christian musician. She talked about this book (I Kissed Dating Good-Bye) that altered her perception. I bought the book in a heartbeat and it also changed my perception. My goal shouldn’t be chasing one man after another in the hopes of finding Mr. Right. Instead, I needed to focus on myself and loving myself.

At the same event, I participated in a cool activity. The speaker wanted us to list all the attributes we were looking for in Mr/Mrs Right. I did. There was 30 attributes I was looking for in my Mr. Right. Here are a few:

Be a faithful man

Romantic

Be a chef, like Emeril 

Hard Worker

Loves me for me

When I got home, I prayed over this list. I gave up my controlling nature of finding Mr. Right and instead asked God to send me my life partner when I was ready. A year later, I met MR N. On the night before our wedding, I pulled out the list and MR N was the embodiment of every single attribute. 🙂

Why am I telling you this? While I was focusing on improving myself, I was also learning valuable lessons that would come in handy later on. I was learning how to love myself. I was learning how to forgive others. I was learning to see people for who they were and love them unconditionally. I was learning how to be the woman I was meant to be.

Agreeing to become MRS N was the best decision I have ever made. Not only do I love MR N with my whole heart, but I love myself too. Marriage can be hard for some people. It can take a lot of work for some couples. MR N and I didn’t want to become another statistic so we agreed to always love each other, no matter what. We didn’t find fault with each other and nothing became irritating.

How did we do this?

By loving each other and committing to love each other unconditionally every single day!

I love you. That means I’m not just here for the pretty parts. I’m here no matter what.

That’s a powerful statement and one that every couple should commit to every single day. MR N and I have gone through some ups and downs in our life together (job loss, moving, financial strain, death, etc.). It was hard, trust me, but we got through it together. Without each other, we wouldn’t have the super-strong love we share today!

Romantic love is a beautiful thing and I hope everyone experiences the same soul-fulfilling love MR N and I share!

** A note for my single followers: I strongly recommend you create a list of at least 20 attributes you are looking for in your ideal mate. Then pray/meditate over that list. Be patient and be ready. Unconditional love is worth the wait **

❤ MRS N ❤